Cupid Calendar is for shared planning, reflection, and talking with each other. Our tools are meant to encourage understanding and closeness in a way that respects privacy, boundaries, and each person's right to choose how they participate.
Consent comes first
Consent should always be clear, voluntary, informed, and ongoing.
Using Cupid Calendar does not replace direct communication between partners. A reminder, shared plan, check-in, preference, prior activity, or AI suggestion does not equal consent.
Every person has the right to say no, not now, slow down, or stop at any time. Those choices should always be respected.
Respectful use only
Cupid Calendar may only be used in respectful, lawful, and non-coercive ways.
You may not use the app to:
- pressure, shame, or manipulate another person
- monitor or control another person
- weaponize reflections, mood logs, or shared insights during conflict
- harass, threaten, or retaliate against another user
- impersonate another person or create deceptive relationship activity
- misuse private information shared in confidence
Any use of the platform to facilitate abuse, coercion, stalking, or exploitation is prohibited.
Privacy and shared visibility
Some Cupid Calendar features allow users to share calendars, check-ins, gratitude notes, or guided sessions. Users should always understand what is private, what is shared, and who can see it.
Before enabling shared features, we encourage users to:
- review visibility settings carefully
- talk openly about what will be shared
- respect one another's privacy and boundaries
- avoid sharing information they would not want visible to authorized participants
Shared features should support trust and communication, not surveillance or control. If either of you is afraid of the other, read our Safety Resources page first.
Emotional safety matters
We care about emotional safety as well as physical safety.
Cupid Calendar should never be used to pressure someone into sharing personal history, reflections, or emotions before they are ready. Relationship tools, learning content, and insights should be used to support understanding and growth — not to score, shame, or blame another person.
Guidance, not a substitute for care
Cupid Calendar may offer educational content, planning tools, prompts, and AI-supported guidance. These features are intended for reflection and support only.
They are not a substitute for:
- licensed therapy or counseling
- medical advice or care
- legal advice
- crisis intervention
- emergency services
If you feel unsafe, threatened, or in immediate danger, seek help from local emergency or support services right away. If either of you is afraid of the other, read our Safety Resources page first.
Adults only
Cupid Calendar is intended for adults who are legally permitted to use relationship and personal reflection tools in their jurisdiction. Users must meet the minimum legal age required by applicable law.
Reporting and account controls
We encourage users to act early if something feels uncomfortable, unsafe, or misaligned.
Where available, users may be able to:
- adjust visibility settings
- disconnect shared relationships
- limit what is shared
- email us to report misuse
- delete their account and data
- request account or data changes under applicable policies
We may suspend or close accounts that break these standards.
By using Cupid Calendar, you agree to engage with the platform in a way that respects privacy, boundaries, dignity, and the right of every person to choose how they participate.
Guiding principles
A plan is not a promise. Check in with each other directly.
Shared activity should support communication, not create pressure.
Respect boundaries, privacy, and each person's pace.
Use insights to understand each other better — not to blame or keep score.