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Privacy and Consent in Cupid Calendar

Cupid Calendar is built around a private-by-default philosophy. Your relationship data belongs to you and your partner — not to us.

Private by design

Relationship content, check-ins, guided exercise responses, and planning data are private to you and your partner. We do not read your relationship content ourselves. Some features process it on our servers so they can work. For example, Arrow, the app's AI coach, uses your check-ins to answer you. When you use Arrow, your messages and the app data it reads go to Anthropic, our AI provider, so it can reply. We do not use your relationship content for anything else.

Consent-based sharing

We share data only with the service providers that run the app, listed in our Privacy Policy, and with your partner. When you link, your partner can see gratitude notes you write for them and which lessons you have finished. They cannot see your lesson answers. In most exercises you do together, you each see the other's answers once you have both finished.

What we do and do not sell

We do not sell your personal data. We do not use it to show you ads. We are a product company, not an ad-supported platform. Our business model does not require monetizing what you share inside the app.

Your rights

  • You can ask for a copy of your data by emailing privacy@cupidcompanies.com.
  • You have the right to correct inaccurate personal data.
  • You have the right to request deletion of your personal data.
  • You have the right to withdraw consent for optional data uses at any time.
  • Full details are in the Privacy Policy at cupidcompanies.com/privacy.

Sensitive data

You choose what you write about sensitive topics, and what you share. Calendar, session and check-in sharing stay off until you turn them on. Questionnaire results are never shared with your partner. Your private journal and event notes are visible only to you.

Marketing communications

Marketing messages require your explicit opt-in. We will not send promotional messages without it. You can withdraw consent at any time with the unsubscribe link in our marketing emails, by turning off Marketing updates in the app's settings, or by emailing privacy@cupidcompanies.com directly.

If either of you is afraid of the other, read our Safety Resources page first.